Thursday, April 3, 2008

Beautiful Bonnie

Since last fall I have been following a very special blog. All of the blogs I follow are adoption blogs, all except for one -- Bonnie's blog is different . . .

Bonnie's blog puts life in perspective for me. Why? Because while I have been working through the paperchase and the waaaaaiting that international adoption requires. Bonnie has been going through surgery . . . and chemo . . . and more surgery . . . and radiation . . . and waiting. Waiting for the chemo to be over . . . . . . waiting for the radiation to be done . . . waiting to regain her strength . . . . . . and waiting on test results. This past Tuesday after an eleven month long gut wrenching, hair losing, faith testing battle, Bonnie got the news she was waiting for. . . there are no more signs of cancer. Victory in Jesus!

It kind of puts my wait in perspective.

Bonnie is only in her 40's, she is a daughter, and a wife, and she is a homeschooling mom to four beautiful children (She graduated her oldest shortly after her battle began!). Bonnie is a sister, an aunt, a teacher, and she is my sister's best friend. The list goes on . . . but most of all Bonnie is a child of God. . . and He has been, as Bonnie calls Him, "My Very Present Help".

Bonnie's mom and children, and beautiful smiling Bonnie!

The battle has been tough . . . and all I had to do was read it. Bonnie was living it. Her husband, and her children, and her mom were living it . . . minute by minute, day by day, sleepless night by sleepless night. Through the highs and the oh so lows. Each day a battle, and each day Bonnie found another reason to praise her Lord. She never stopped. Never. Not through the loss, or the fear, or the pain. . . and there was much . . . she never stopped finding reasons to praise the Lord. He was and is her Very Present Help.

Bonnie & her husband Tim


God prompted me to look up the meaning of "Bonnie" yesterday. I should have known -- Bonnie means beautiful! Bonnie you are beautiful. Inside and out. You are a beautiful example of how God desires us to trust Him. . . Your courage and humility are beautiful. Your ready smile is beautiful! The way you honor God in all circumstances inspires me to be a better me! Your written words have
caused me to think twice, on more than one occasion. Your battle has caused me to grow. Your faith has given me a new perspective.

Thank you Bonnie for your faithfulness. Today I celebrate LIFE with you, my friend.

In Bonnie's words . . . He is faithful!

Blessings!

T~

P.S. Bonnie, may I steal a picture of you off your blog? Pretty please? Mission accomplished!



4 comments:

Ohilda said...

Tina,

Isn't God amazing how he puts people in our path just when we need them? He is faithful. He is loving and merciful. And he loves us more than we could ever imagine as humans.

While your wait seems intolerable at times, he has allowed you to view more difficult circumstances in others so that you can lean more on him. I don't know how people function without God. It baffles my mind.

Hugs and praying for that LOA...

Ohilda

The Ferrill's said...

Oh what a beautiful post, and a beautiful Bonnie! Having a close friend who claimed victory over cancer as well, I am praising God with you all! What a testimony...
On your post below, Teddi looks so healthy! Kimmie is right at that size now, and she is between a 2T and 3T. I know it brightens your day and your heart to see new pics, and I can't wait for the day you're seeing that baby girl IN PERSON!

Bonnie said...

After you have made my head so big, it probably won't FIT on your blog!(yes you may use a picture)
Honestly Tina, you have blessed my heart in ways I cannot rightly express with words..Thank you dear one.
Praise to the One Who made us both and loves us tenderly, fiercely and completely!
I am blessed beyond words-- except for three--
He is faithful,
Bonnie

Kim said...

I just wanted to let you know that I am praying....and will continue.

Kim